Okay so if I loose anyone or disturb anyone but I have been meaning to write this and I have decided today is the day. As the title says, I am going to do my best to explain the two sides to this man, as in me, myself, I. My yin is a very peaceful, loving, caring, gentle, cuddly, warm bundle of compassion and passion. My yang is a dark, mean, cruel, heartless, vindictive, lying, mercifulness monster who ares to only crush, hurt, upset and destroy anything and everything my yin cherishes. I have lashed out countless times at those who didn't deserve it, see it coming, or (for some) ever actually recover from. For this I am sorry. I have tried meditation, training, medications, soft mellow music, therapy, and many other numerous fables to temper the beast in. To those I've hurt, scared, upset, pissed off, or offended in the past I'm sorry and I can only say I'm sorry. I hope you can find it in your hearts to forgive me. To those who may see its wrath in the future I apologize ahead of time. Through out the years I have battled with both sides in my heart and head. I truly feared happiness as whenever I was happy those around me aways seemed to suffer. When I was hurting, upset or unhappy my friends and closest seemed happy, joyful and their lives couldn't be better but I would feel jealousy and hate towards them and not know why, so I'd stay away to not hurt their good fortune. I have scared myself, hurt myself, neglected, abused, tortured and punished myself for my sins as well, some to extremes some would say. These days I try to keep my anger under control and when I feel it coming out in me I leave so it doesn't get anyone. Sometimes it gets out and I don't realize it. I'm sorry for those days. On the days my yin is high I am sweet, gentle, helpful, chatty and goofy to entertain everyone in the room. My friends at least get a call from me and I'll ask how they are and chat with them. I will do favors more and brighten the day when I'm like that and someone is down. In short, on one side theres a devil, on the other a gentle angel, and smack dab in the middle is a weird, silly, nerdy, playful, child-like, cartoon, comic book, sci-fi, Transformers, anime, manga, dragon, medieval, magic, super-hero, super-villain, wrestling, rock-roll, techno, goth, wicca, pagan, spiritual, stand-up comic, romantic, gentlemen of a guy, aka ME. If you follow, good. If not, sorry. I can't say it any clearer. Welcome to the small glimpse of my life/ mind.